My next door neighbor, who has the reputation of aggressively converting non born-again people, asked me if I believe in a deity.
Debating online is one thing.
Dealing with it in person....
Well, there is a lot of pressure to that. The social pressure of being polite to someone well into retirement age. The not wanting to tick off the next door neighbor with adjoining land factor. The intimidation of him as a domineering male. The vulnerability of homeschooling my kids, leaving me wide open to social services complaints of a wide variety of unsubstantiated claims that "must be checked out".